Tag Archives: sex workers
YoHo! Recap
Yes Mickey, They are pretty splendid!
YoHo! was, as we all suspected it would be, a blast. Because really, a gathering of sex positive ladies in Disneyland, and, if they have them, their kids? What is not to love. I’m fairly certain more then one person walked away going did… I just over hear what I THINK I over heard in line for Small World?
Because speaking in code over the kids heads, doesn’t always mean it’s over the heads of the guy in line behind you.
It was a fairly small group of women (both those in the sex industry, and some who were just sex positive and wanting to socialize with others of like mind) which made it a super intimate group. We tended to take off two by two for different rides or attractions (MUCH easier to do Disneyland that way) which meant lots of time to get to know each other, then met for a little relaxing and watching the kids run wild, before splitting off again. We all got to see past each others press and get to know the real person behind the reputation.
Filed under Random Fluffy Bits
Wednesday Hump Report
The Big and Small of it all
Where once again, I weed through all the weird sex news so you don’t have to. And this week? It was a big, messy job. WHERE to begin?
How about with a map that shows us where the biggest boobs live. Boobs being breasts, not politicians. That map is still apparently being kept secret, although I have a few ideas. Now my D cup feels so… normal. Actually, I’m a DD. Does this mean my true sisters are in Russia? Or here in the states? This map is so unclear.
TSA Protester. Or, as we used to call them. Air travelers. This man was certainly not the first to think it would just be easier to go through security if we all just did it naked. He was, however, the first to do it. Then refuse to put his cloths back on.
My favorite quote from the naked man? ”It got a lot bigger than I thought it ever would.” O_o
Filed under Issues. We All Have Issues., Random Fluffy Bits
How I feel about being a sex worker
no bad women * just bad laws
From a discussion by Greta Christina at Free Thought Blogs about sex workers feelings about being sex workers. I figured my readers here might like to read my answers as well.
Why did you get into the sex industry?
To support myself while I went to college.
Did you freely choose this work? Were you in any way forced or coerced into it? Were you pressured into it by economic or other pressure?
Hell no. I was totally excited to find a way to make $ without working a full time job while attending college full time. I could have worked my ass off at some fast food joint, but showing my ass for much shorter hours seemed like a great idea.
Why did you go into the particular line(s) of sex work that you did?
Filed under Random Fluffy Bits, The Spanking Factory
Timing and Money
Time is Money
I have always tried not to see clients who truly annoyed me or pushed my limits. Those are the clients that will make you resent your job, your other clients as well as people in general.
But there was one client who I saw for years. He annoyed me from the first session, but always seemed to have a special knack for knowing when to call.
“I’m sorry, your transmission needs to be replaced. It’s not going to be cheap.”
ring ring – “Hello Mistress? It’s Joe.”
Uhg.
“Looks like you are going to need a root canal. Your insurance only covers half.”
ring ring – “Hello Mistress? It’s Joe.”
Uhg.
“If I see two more clients this week, I’ll be able to spend an extra week in Europe!”
ring ring – “Hello Mistress? It’s Joe.”
Uhg.
Filed under The Spanking Factory
Milk Makers and Money Shakers: Grace
Milk Makers and Money Shakers: Grace
Demystifying the Sex Worker Mommy
Name: Grace
Sexy Occupation: I was primarily a Dominatrix, but also participated in other forms of sex work, including modeling and street-level work
How long have you been a sex worker? About 6 years
Children’s ages: R.E., age 3. I was also a log-time nanny for two children (R, age 13 and M, age 9) and their mother knew about and supported my work as a pro-Domme, even watching my child for me when I had sessions.
All About Grace, the woman:
Filed under Milk Makers Money Shakers
Milk Makers and Money Shakers: Mistress J
Mistress J
Demystifying the Sex Worker Mommy
Name: Mistress J
Sexy Occupation: Professional Dominatrix
How long have you been a sex worker? 2 years
Children’s ages 5 years old
Mistress J, The Woman:
Is your life where you thought it would be? Yes and no. I’ve got what is most important to me, an amazing kid, a home, and great friends. I never wanted to be a stay at home mom. My career has always been important to me. Becoming a pro-domme was not part of my original plan – I was going to be a world famous artist – but it certainly is a blast!
Mistress J, The Momma:
What is the hardest thing about being a mom that you didn’t expect? It’s not that any one particular moment is difficult, it’s that I was not prepared for how grueling and never ending it is. Life at home is pretty much one big interruption, and carving out personal time is an art. When my kid was first born I felt like my body no longer belonged to me, which was hard but now that she’s a little older the hardest part is time management.
Filed under Milk Makers Money Shakers
But Porn Stars Can’t Read?!
Sasha Grey Reading To Kids
I’m so over this. I just do not understand why parents are getting all riled up about Sasha Grey reading to their kids. It’s not like she was wearing sexy lingerie and showing a reel of her Best Of in the back ground. It’s not like she was waving around her AVN award for Best Anal. It’s not like she was reading Macho Sluts. It’s not like any of the kids knew about her past.
Now all those kids, who thought they had a pretty girl come read to them – quite animatedly looking at the pictures, are home listening to their parents rant about “That Porn Star Sasha Grey” and now, THANKS TO THEIR PARENTS, those kids are googling things like ‘Porn Star’ and ‘Sasha Grey.’ Because kids hear everything. They are super spys and share information faster then a firewire.
Milk Makers and Money Shakers: Madison Young (part 2)
In case you haven’t all ready, read the first part of Madison Young’s interview here.
Demystifying the Sex Worker Mommy
Madison Young
Madison Young, Sex Worker:
What is your favorite sex toy? Well that depends on who I’m playing with and the situation. I love my hitatchi magic wand but since the baby I’ve actually really enjoyed my vibratex acuvibe which is a similar vibrator but battery powered and waterproof so it can be used while I’m taking a nice hot relaxing bath. I have a lot less private time to play with sex toys these days so the acuvibe really fits into my busy schedule as a working mom. I also love my enjoy pure wand and the njoy butt plugs. They are made of stainless steel and have the perfect curves to reach your g-spot. Vixskin has some excellent dildos that are a very life like texture perfect for penetration and faux jobs. I love canes and whips but its a rarity these days that we have time or space to play with these impliments. However hands are a “handy” and versatile bdsm implement that fits into our new lives of balancing a sex life and parenthood.
Milk Makers and Money Shakers: Madison Young (part 1)
Demystifying the Sex Worker Mommy
Madison Young
Name: Madison Young
Sexy Occupation: Feminist Porn Star & Director – Sex Educator
How long have you been a sex worker? 10 years
Children’s ages E.L.M. – 6 months
Personal Link(s):
Madison Young, the woman:
Are you a feminist? Yes I identify as a sex positive feminist. I feel that feminism is about equality and the right to choose. And I choose pleasure. I’m in control of my body, my pleasure, my wants and desires and I know how to communicate those wants and desires to others both on and off camera.
What is your perfect day off on your own? A perfect day off on my own. Its hard to fathom being separated from my baby on a day off of work. But I think a day off would involve sleeping in late in a comfortable hotel room and breakfast in bed followed by reading a book on the beach. If I was feeling really decadent I might squeeze in a visit to the spa for a massage, mani/pedi, and some evening meditation.
Filed under Milk Makers Money Shakers
Unforgettable. That’s what you are…
Unforgettable. That's what you are.
Totally. Absolutely. Oh. Wait. That’s not what I meant.
I loved meeting you. We had fun! Maybe you brought me a wonderful gift. We talked about life and your wife and all the reasons you couldn’t share this with her. You poured your heart out to me about your fetish and your fears surrounding it.
And then I did the most unmentionable things to your unmentionables.
Put you in panties and tied you up. I spanked you and told you what a nasty little worm you were. You were unfit to lick my boots, but were forced to deep throat them anyways. I tied up your manhood and insulted it. I smacked it around an made you cry. I shoved things inside you from every direction, filling every orifice. I pretended to be a neighbor, that one from your childhood. I caught you peeking in my windows and I punished you soundly, cleavage heaving. I outed you to my friends. I tied you up and left you for hours. In the dark. Afraid. Terrified even. I beat you until the marks left a lasting impression, if not on your ass, then on your soul.
Filed under The Book
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neeroc on Thinking Outside The Box Give AwayV (5) was with me when that IG pic came across my timeline. I told her they were earrings *g* 
QueerieBradshaw on Thinking Outside The Box Give AwayI wanted to post something about anal being outside of the box, but I couldn't come up with something funny enough. My life is thinking outside of the box. Including buying paddles with you at the place we aren't mentioning due to you not wanting to be sued. 
Mona Darling on A Rockin Parenting Fail.I got a new system. I'll post about how he out smarted me on that one soon. :-/