Tag Archives: Humiliation
E is for Erotic Embarrassment
Hope no one saw that. Sorta.
You are carrying your groceries to the car and trip in your new heels and fall on your ass. Embarrassment.
You are carrying your groceries to the car and trip in your new heels and fall on your ass and the bag boy who looks like Christian Bale catches you and holds you tight. Erotic Embarrassment.
You go out with your partner and just as your arrive at the restaurant, you realize the dress you are wearing is a little more see through then you thought. Embarrassment.
Your spends dinner telling you how much it turns them on. Erotic Embarrassment.
Watch Magic Mike and pussy gets wet. Embarrassment.
Watching Magic Mike and partner slips fingers inside panties and appreciates that wetness verbally. Erotic Embarrassment.
As a Professional Dominatrix, I get a lot of requests for humiliation and erotic embarrassment. It can be one of the hardest, most mentally challenging games to play.
OPK’s are assholes
I'd kill for 2 minutes alone in the bathroom.
Seriously.
Today was the day that I started peeing on ovulation predictor kits.officially. I pee’d on one yesterday, but that was just practice. Like I need it.
Well. Actually I do. Because when I was 21, my abusive ex bullied me into having an abortion, I turned around and had my tubes tied. So, I’m the only infertile I know who doesn’t know how to track my cycle. Sick joke that nature plays on me though? Because my cycles are regular and IF has blessed me with more knowledge then babies, I can tell when I ovulate. That’s extra special knowledge on those cycles when we aren’t cycling.
Like all the ones I have in my future.
Makes me wonder why we just didn’t invest in the reversal. Oh yeah, because we never imagined it would take so many cycles with my good numbers and my regular cycles. Blarg.
My limits
Sweet Submissive
My ex-husband was abusive. While some of it was physical, much of it was emotional and verbal. It took several years and a good bit of working through my past to get where I am. I’m ok now. I understand that what he said to me reflected on him as a person. Not on me. So when I’m in the dungeon, in a safe, sane place, with safe words and trust and negotiations and aftercare, I have no problem calling upon my memories of him to humiliate someone who craves it. I have no problem calling up old favorites like;
- If I want to know what you are thinking, I’ll fucking ask you.
- How many fucking times do I have to tell you, open your fucking ears.
- You fucking WHORE!
- Stupid fucking bitch.
Ah, good times! It’s a wonder I still love the word fuck.
Filed under Issues. We All Have Issues., The Spanking Factory
Small Penis Humiliation
Small Penis Humiliation
The first time I did a SPH scene (yes, it’s popular enough to have a short {ha ha} nick name) I worked in a fetish house. The phone girl asked me if I was into it and I thought… That is HILARIOUS! Sign me up!
After a brief negotiation, I took the cash, and left to put the signed disclaimer away. When I returned to the room, my rather attractive client had stripped down and was kneeling on the floor stroking his tiny, totally unfit to actually satisfy a woman cock.
Except it wasn’t tiny and insignificant. It. Was. Huge!
So I did what any woman in that situation would do. You know. A woman who was single and really missing regular sex. When confronted with a naked rather attractive man. And his giant cock. Who just wants to be humiliated about how small it is.
Filed under Kinky Sex Tips For Curious Girls
Dirty Talk: Humiliation
Humiliation
What if The Dirty Talk your SO is looking to hear is not just the standard naughty verb + body part = Heelloooo Nurse! fare? Humiliation is hugely diverse area ranging from the subtly erotic to the physical or public with long stops in race and religion. But where to begin?
Because this is such a mental game, knowing your partners subtle queues are of paramount importance. It’s fine line between getting your partner off in a massive fashion and having a rather tense morning-after breakfast. I would suggest discussing limits and interests before hand and using a safe word. Or you can take baby steps – adding little things each time you play. Also, make sure any emotional scaring is well known. Don’t threaten to rape a rape survivor, or accidentally call someone the same pet name (bitch, cunt, cum guzzler) that a former lover or abuser called them.
Filed under Kinky Sex Tips For Curious Girls
Oh, The Humiliation
Female Supremacy
In my line of work, I deal with requests for humiliation all the time. Erotic, verbal, physical, or psychological, such as racial, religious and occasionally financial. But even the most hard core submissive has limits – as well as hot buttons. Before we play, these are discussed at length. After 15 years, I know what questions to ask when people say they are into humiliation. Do they want to be talked down to because they don’t deserve to be in the presence of such a beautiful women as myself ;-}~ . Or yelled at for an imagined faux pas. Maybe they need to hear me laugh at their small penis, or their desire to lick the bottom of my shoes.
And who am I as I enact this humiliation? Am I their boss who has found porn on their company computer or panties in their desk drawer. Or a female supremacist with a new, untrained slave? Their mother? Their wife? Their high school sweetheart? Teacher? Nun?
Filed under Issues. We All Have Issues., The Spanking Factory
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