This is a guest post from Kasey G. If you would like to be part of my The Other Women series and write about your sexual identity, contact me! Your story can be silly, sexy or sad. There is no normal and all points of view are invited to join.
i lost my virginity when i was 12 to an 11 year old boy. we both thought we were cool having sex and that everbody would think so too. we were wrong. where he got praise i got called a slut amoungst other very hurtful names. needless to say sex at such a young age was not cool or sensible. ive only slept with 3 others since then. well 2 and a half really. i doubt the next one counts. i was 13 and this boy had liked me for a long time. he finally talked my knikers off but when it came to it he just rubbed himself up against my pubic bone. turns out he was too scared off getting me pregnant to actually put it in. his words “does it have to go in?”
then there was when i was 14 with someone who was actually my boyfriend (im not a slut, really) although it turns out that was all he wanted from me and dumped me very soon afterwards.
needless to say my sexual experiences had put me off sex for life. until i met my DH
it was three months into our relationship before we took the plunge and i was glad we did. he was so gentle and caring. he wanted to know what i wanted. and it was with somebody i truely loved. and i havnt looked back. we have experimented in every which way.
now i have begun getting adventurous in ways that are blowing his mind. i found i like to be dominated and in a big way. i like to be hit and pushed about. and i absolutely love it when he puts his big hands around my throught and squeezes. he is getting his head around the whole thing atm and its all new to both of us but he will get the hang of it eventually
i would like to say that this new found interest is down to you Dead Cow Girl. reading your blog has inspired me. thank you so much