Mistress J
Demystifying the Sex Worker Mommy
Name: Mistress J
Sexy Occupation: Professional Dominatrix
How long have you been a sex worker? 2 years
Children’s ages 5 years old
Mistress J, The Woman:
Is your life where you thought it would be? Yes and no. I’ve got what is most important to me, an amazing kid, a home, and great friends. I never wanted to be a stay at home mom. My career has always been important to me. Becoming a pro-domme was not part of my original plan – I was going to be a world famous artist – but it certainly is a blast!
Mistress J, The Momma:
What is the hardest thing about being a mom that you didn’t expect? It’s not that any one particular moment is difficult, it’s that I was not prepared for how grueling and never ending it is. Life at home is pretty much one big interruption, and carving out personal time is an art. When my kid was first born I felt like my body no longer belonged to me, which was hard but now that she’s a little older the hardest part is time management.
Mistress J
Mistress J, The Sex Worker:
What is your sex advice to other moms? It’s not over! I feel like a lot of new moms no longer see themselves as a sexual person after the kid comes along, they just see themselves as moms with never ending work. It’s still ok to be naughty, or even filthy, in the bedroom, and moms shouldn’t pretend to be shocked. I feel more confident and sexy than I did in my 20s. Smart is sexy. Yes we are exhausted but start chasing after your own fantasies instead of just trying to fulfill your partners, it’ll get you going.
How has being a sex worker changed your view of other women? The absolute best perk about being a pro-domme in a house is the incredible dressing room gossip. No holds barred, filthy perverted chit chat and it’s fantastic to listen to other women freely discuss their private lives without any fear that the other girls will be horrified.
Mistess J, A Mother and A Sex Worker:
Do you have regrets about being a sex worker mom? Do they outweigh the benefits? I regret having a job that I have to hide from people in order to protect my kid but the flexibility, the money and the added quality time with her is worth it. I still can pick her up from school everyday and it makes feel I’m there for her.
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