Monthly Archives: May 2008
Let the countdown begin!
Countdown
In about 7 days I’ll start my period, and start the pill and start the whole IVF experience.
….
This is going to the worlds longest week, followed by the worlds longest month and a half…. followed by … ???
And in 2 days I start the spanking factory back up. It’s going to be really weird being in the dungeon with clients as a married woman. Actually, since DaddyO and I have been together for 10 years, I don’t really think it’s the married part that is freaking me out so much, as the impending IVF. I’m trying to picture myself 6 months preggers, smashed in my leathers and yielding a whip and not doing a very good job at it. I’ve talked to two other Dominas about it and one said she say regular clients nearly her entire pregnancy, another who before she found out she was pregnant, suddenly found herself completely unable to hurt someone – even consensually and in fun.
Post Wedding Blues?
special for the creature-in-law
Wow. So I kept hearing about them, but didn’t think I would be affected. But perhaps I had the whole thing wrong. You see, I though the post wedding blues were when the bride came home all married and returned to real life and no longer was the center of attention and no longer in the midst of spending more money on a party then they would ever spend in their lives and well… would get sorta depressed.
Yeah, I don’t have that.
Instead, I have 72 stitches in my mouth making it nearly impossible for me to talk. No heavy lifting and any exorcise makes my mouth throb. My house is a pile of half unpacked boxes and suitcases and my clients, for both businesses are calling and emailing because I’m late getting back on schedule. And I think my dog is threatening to move out if I don’t promise some more interesting walks to the park soon.
I would LOVE to get back to my pre-wedding life.
Filed under Holy Matrimony Batman!
Chickenpig2 on D is for DominationYou are definitely as much a therapist as a sex worker, although being a therapist would require investing in a whole new wardrobe, not to mention an office with a trickling water feature, soft new agey music, and maybe a fish tank. 
braving_ivf on D is for DominationProof of how complicated we all are. Physical/emotional/mental stuff all collides sometimes. I'm confident they both felt well taken care of, even if it wasn't exactly how they expected to be taken care of when they arrived. 
tzzw on D is for DominationI'm not kidding: 80% of my sessions are like this. Self care! Have fun at Disneyland! :) 
dipitie on D is for DominationWow. You really do have a tough job. You are closer to a therapist than you are a sex worker. 
Lynn Lacroix on The Other Women: Lynn Lacroix, part deuxThanks for sharing my story again, Mona! It's funny. I wrote it, but I still get turned on reading it.